if the only sympathy you can offer to an abuse or rape victim is after hearing the lurid details you aren’t working in solidarity, you are working as a voyeur.
Why is a porn blog following me
You just might not understand it yet. But it’s cool. Family is super cool. Going home to one girl every night is super cool. Just going home and getting on the floor and playing with your child is super cool. Not wearing a red leather jacket, and just looking like a dad and shit, is like super cool. Having someone that I can call Mom again. That shit is super cool.
I want, she said,
a theory that explains
I want it
to be my fault
so I can fix it.